But he's saying, hey, if we be honest with ourselves and judge ourselves, if we say, hey, I do have fault against somebody, I don't love my brother and sister like I ought to. God, I'm asking you to help me to show them a love that I should have instead of a hatred, instead of despising one another, instead of all the things that are going on in my life, God, I need you to do it for me. If we judge ourselves, then he's saying, hey, it'd be a lot better for you if we do a self examination. If we look at our own heart and not say, hey, Dee has these problems. God, you know what Dee's problems is? That's what a lot of us do. And I'm using Dede as my wife, except Mermaid, saying, hey, it's a man. God is that woman you give me. That's the problem. Like Adam did with Eve. And then Janice might be saying, duh is the problem. But God said, examine your own heart. Look in your own life. Darrell, what's the problem in your life? Do you have fault with brothers and sisters in Christ? Would you walk another aisle if you seen them in the grocery store? Keep them speaking to them. How many of you ever done that? See somebody down the road and say, oh, our soul, soul, and turn another direction. Anybody? Sometimes it's just because you want to talk for a long time. A lot of times it's because you don't talk because you have fought against or whatever the case May be, but God wants us to look in her own life, examine her own heart, examine ourselves and be worthy of what he's asked us to do.